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My Daughters Are Failures…And, I’m So Proud

I have two daughters, Grace (12) and Riley (16), and they are failures. They have failed at so many things in their short lives. They’ve entered countless contests (coloring, drawing, poetry, essay…) and have come up short too many times to count. At one point, Riley wanted to become a singer, but she just didn’t … Continued

Is Confusion an Actual Parenting Model?

Why is it all so confusing?  Or is it just me? I sometimes wonder why parenting feels so different (complex? overwhelming?) than it was for my parents.  Sure, the pace of change (particularly technology change) makes today’s world almost unrecognisable to previous generations.  But, parenting itself just feels more confusing than ever. Possibility vs Fear … Continued

Why do some Kids Resist Routine?

Routine. It’s a dull sounding word isn’t it? I beg to differ. In fact I would argue  routine frees us up to have a more remarkable lives. Take Mark Zuckerberg. Same grey t-shirt and blue jeans, day-in, day-out, and looks where it’s got him! But whilst his success with Facebook has a [bit] more to … Continued

51 Reward Ideas to Motivate and Inspire your Kids

Why reward your kids? Rewards help motivate and inspire. They provide positive reinforcement for good behaviour while helping encourage your child to complete a difficult task. Rewards are recognition for a job well done. And while descriptive praise and attention are the most effective form of reward a parent can offer a child, tangible rewards such as an activity … Continued